It's 2 A.M., and I'm not sure where I'm going with this...just random thoughts and feelings as I sit in our comfortable family room on a peaceful February morning watching Anderson Cooper and other journalists "reporting from an undisclosed location" in Egypt.
One Egyptian commentator (Mr. Ajami) said yesterday that the people didn't think they had enough room in their hearts for more heartbreak. Yet their peaceful demonstrations beginning 10 days ago have now taken a nasty turn as of yesterday. It's hard for me to wrap my arms around the violent images shown on CNN and elsewhere. How is it I am so blessed to be this safe, this protected, this peaceful while a world away others fight for democracy by civil disobedience and in some cases fight for their lives?
As a mediator, I'm trained to look for the win-win in conflict without going to war with each other. This seems so remote at the moment for the 80 million people of Egypt. While I go to bed soon and absorb the lovely silence of the night, I am struck by images of protesters in Cairo breaking up concrete streets into chunks to use as weapons and of a van blatantly mowing down pedestrians.
This crisis is hardly something to sleep on. I still pray for peace this day.
Showing posts with label violence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label violence. Show all posts
Friday, February 4, 2011
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
The lessons of Tucson
Is it about gun control? vitriolic rhetoric? mental illness? congressional civility? Since the shooting of Representative Gabrielle Giffords, we've seen and heard hundreds of reports, editorials, commentators and water cooler discussions on the topic of "what caused this."
While I believe that all these are significant topics, nothing is going to change the fact that people can get guns on the street, that mental illness is here to stay despite our best efforts to help the sufferers, and that no matter how much politicians and others tone down their conversations, we have not gotten to the heart of the problem.
America accepts violence as a way of life. Not the only way, but a way. We live in a culture in which bullying, road rage, domestic violence, drugs, shootings and what one commentator called "ideological bloodsport" in smear campaigns make daily headlines. We tend to turn the other way until it happens to us. And then for a time we play nice, and return to our old ways.
Thomas Jefferson said in his March 4, 1801 Inaugural Address, "Every difference of opionion is not a difference of priciple." This is what mediators and other ADR practioners help clients learn. That we can find common ground; that we can resolve differences by focusing on the best possible outcome for all involved; that conflict resolution does not have to involve guns, slaps, jabs, slurs or other forms of violence.
America needs, as the Chicago Tribune editorial writes, to learn "quality conflict resolution with the ammo."
While I believe that all these are significant topics, nothing is going to change the fact that people can get guns on the street, that mental illness is here to stay despite our best efforts to help the sufferers, and that no matter how much politicians and others tone down their conversations, we have not gotten to the heart of the problem.
America accepts violence as a way of life. Not the only way, but a way. We live in a culture in which bullying, road rage, domestic violence, drugs, shootings and what one commentator called "ideological bloodsport" in smear campaigns make daily headlines. We tend to turn the other way until it happens to us. And then for a time we play nice, and return to our old ways.
Thomas Jefferson said in his March 4, 1801 Inaugural Address, "Every difference of opionion is not a difference of priciple." This is what mediators and other ADR practioners help clients learn. That we can find common ground; that we can resolve differences by focusing on the best possible outcome for all involved; that conflict resolution does not have to involve guns, slaps, jabs, slurs or other forms of violence.
America needs, as the Chicago Tribune editorial writes, to learn "quality conflict resolution with the ammo."
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